Living Authentically – its back to the future.

At a recent Neos Delta circle meeting we discussed our retreat,  Leading with the Long View.  Chin Siong Seah spoke eloquently and passionately about the future, the growth of a new order based on data and how we we are compromised,  ‘owned’.  We need awareness of data privacy and protection. Later he said a feed appeared, in which 2019 Pulitzer Prize finalist,  Carole Cadwalladr did an emotional but focused TED talk on living in a digital coup.  Carole gives a very sobering assessment of the future, including the death of democracy, arrival of the post truth era, and the rise of a new totalitarianism, ownership of technology and data.  She stressed we need to do to take back our power, our identity and take action.  So what do many of us do,  like me, we shout louder on social media platforms. 

That takes me back to the future.  In 530 AD a young radical called Benedict established what would become the first monastic order.  He developed a way of life, governed by The Benedictine Rule, which demonstrated a deep appreciation of living in community, and a deep understanding of human nature. He also articulated the nature of work, that working is praying ‘Laborare est orare’ . This is a theme many have played upon.   

On Work

Benedict said that work is like praying. Kahlil Gibran is attributed with the phrase “work is love in action’ from his book the Prophet.  Work should not be a drudge, but a sacred expression of care, connection and connectivity.  In many communities and as many in flow have experienced, work is actually love in action. I have often say we  need to be valued and work offers this option.  Not only for flow, people need to work to meet the practicalities of life. The irony is systems wants you to work, wants you to have debt. but a bit of a two edged sword, as technology is showing us. 

Work needs to be meaningful, to be infused with affection, purpose, a desire to add value, its about intention and spirit, and of course getting a return, but that should not be the main purpose. Work is love in action.  You need to love what you do.   If machines and technology replace work, what is the future?

Back to the monastery.  They were of course self-sufficient,  growing food, making clothes, and trading and making all the the other commodities needed for sustaining life.  A circular economy.  BUT, not only that, there was an additional value add. Each large monastery, as the network spread, had its own library, each monk his own pen and tablets.  They preserved not the bible, but also many classical authors and texts.

These monasteries became ‘centers of light and life…preserving and later diffusing what remained of ancient culture and spirituality’ in a sea of darkness and savagery. 

A reoccurring theme in our retreat is that of living, working and focusing on the local.  We are approaching dark times again, there is no doubt our global systems, both human and natural, are in crises. 

I have always believed in other options and one of them, one way to fight back, is to build local strong communities that are the blend of the best practices, not just in the online world.    We are finding that we are looking once again at rise not of monasteries, but of modern fractals communities, with local purposes, strengths, local economies and local networks. Small scale, face to face, empowered with appropriate technology and work, at all the different levels. 

So What am I personally doing?  

We are cornered in an illusionary cocoon of apparent freedom

My Calls to action.

  • I asked an amazing group of friends to join me in a company, Neos Delta.  We plan fantastic work, that lives our purpose.
  • I grow my own food and am building this capacity. This is good to do, at whatever scale – even join an urban food growers circle.
  • Living on 4,000m2 allows me some freedom.   I am working with another circle of friends who have a shared interest to set up a Center for Transition, where we teach some of the skills for resilience, self sufficiency and loving work.  This is a long term dream, but journeys start with the first steps.  If you are interested, research eco-villages, urban Eco-communities – these are experiments in living differently – they are our fractals from the past, but experiments in the future.
  • I write, talk and try to practice what I preach.  Circular economics for many will offer work that is the only option and it can indeed be love in action.  In Visions for a Post Covid World (Dixie Books 2021) I mention a number of communities that use circular economics to power their existence.  Here in the local community, Impendulo, a local not for profit is trying to build a circular economy.
  • Support municipalities/local politics, join ratepayers associations, take action. I have been attending meetings aimed at holding a Chinese owned cement company to account for environmental and social compliance. PPC – feet of cement.
  • Be kind. Be human. I try.  In 2025 Musk infamously commented ”  “The fundamental weakness of Western civilization is empathy.” Prove the bastard wrong.
  • I paint, write and garden. Pick a career or hobby that AI cannot do and does need the internet.  If i could I would have learnt a trade, I try and learn new skills, garden. Risk meeting people. 
  • I avoid buying single use products. prefer recycled. Try and support local and boycott companies that are not good corporate citizens.
  • I am mindful about sharing my information. There is technology to help you keep your privacy and promote transparency, fairness and distributed control. Work with those you trust. I also need to stop scrolling. So addictive.. and they know.
  • Build trust in my personal and business relationships.
  • Volunteer. Not as much as I would like, but I do. I offer my professional service at reduced rates or sometimes, for free. Depends if the purpose aligns with my values.

Question -What does your personal inventory look like?

Vision for the Center for Transition

 

Different Worlds

Intuition, Mindfulness, Prescience – Felt Forces in Daily Life.

 Many refute intuition, mindfulness and prescience as playing a meaningful role in business or life.  Conversations often dry up when I mention I also believe that manifestation, spirituality and strategic intent are part of the same process.

Intuition is defined as when you instinctively know that something you are doing is right or wrong.

The dictionary says it works by drawing on patterns we have collected that lets us make quick decisions. Its a gut feeling, it is immediate, do this or that.  My son told me today that he had an accident on the weekend when the wheels of his Ute locked and he hit a pole. He ignored the intuition he had, that he should not take the Ute. We all experience intuition because it is a felt, recognised force and has been a source of fascination since Ancient Times.(1)  Many famous leaders have relied on intuition to navigate uncertainty and make choices. Albert Einstein famously remarked that ‘The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind a faithful servant’.

Mindfulness is being aware;  of yourself, your context and subtle harbingers calling for your attention.

For example, I lived in Warrandyte in Victoria, a rustic little village outside Melbourne. How I ended up choosing Melbourne is relevant.  I am an entrepreneur and I just setting up my first business in Australia.  Melbourne seemed easier; I had been introduced to a new network of consultants in that city, who seemed keen to work with me.  They offered infrastructure. However, I ignored two emphatic warning signs against settling in Melbourne.  Melbourne later turned out to be a terrible choice.

Firstly, I burnt my leg very badly on the train from Sydney to Melbourne. It was so bad that I cancelled the city tour my future teammates had organized. I could hardly walk.  Secondly, in Sydney, my friend and I were walking down the street of Eastern Valley Way, discussing where to base the company, when we saw carved into the concrete pavement, my name in huge letters.(2]  I remember Sanjeet saying;   “What more do you need?” he pointed, “you should set up base here, in Sydney.”

Big words from a mathematician and atheist, who had no belief in ‘signs”.  But I was neither mindful nor responsive.  I ignored these portents, direct warnings on steroids.  Years later realisation and wisdom came with hindsight.  Energetic forces tried to guide me, but sadly, I was closed. Mindfulness is still superficially understood.  Most health professionals talk up its benefits.  I think it opens up another dimension,  a portal to the Big Networks. (3)

Prescience is sudden insight into what has not happened yet, what may not even yet exist. It is about knowing the future.

It’s future sense. You don’t know why you should feel that way about something; it’s a sense of certainty about an endgame.  Prescience for me ranges from an awareness about a bigger context, to receiving direct information about an event, person, or outcome.

I have many examples but let me share this personal example. – Warrandyte as I said, is a picturesque  little village, about an hour and half commute from the CBD.  Now walking home from the train station my heart was heavy. I had almost nothing to show after three months of frenetic business development activity.   I was working 14-hour days, yet there was no response to my efforts.  Was this going to be another slow, painful startup; like our software company, selling concepts 20 years ahead of their time? Who had heard of a dashboard?

Initially so confident, brimming with energy, buoyed by successes.  I had left on a high, our Southern African company humming, having taken over the client base and functions of our only competitor, the consulting wing of mining giant Anglo American.  A real case of David and Goliath. We now had some 35 consultants and associates, operating across five Southern African countries.

But that energy was not here.  I had zero client prospects.  It was a silent spring, shaping up to be a long hard winter.   I was just not sure I had the energy to do it again.  I sat down on the bank of the big brown Yarra River. After a while I stood up, continuing my homeward plod.  Up ahead, I spied a small wooden alcove nestled among the trees.  I felt a sudden urge to go inside, just to sit quietly, nurse the despondency I was feeling.

Next minute, I was sitting on a hard bench, eyes closed. For some inexplicable reason, I said; “Dear Spirit or God, if you exist, please listen, hear my prayer.  I don’t want to do this start up pain all over again.”  I stopped, feeling silly.  I sat silently, watching the late afternoon sunlight rimming the leaves.

Then I heard a soft, clear, firm voice in my ear, saying; “It will not be the same, it will be new.” I had a prescience that the business would fly, it would be successful, there would be no start up grind again.  This knowledge flooded in.  I just knew. It was a felt force and uncertainty and worry left.

Two days later a senior member of Westpac Banking Corporation phoned.  We never looked back. Two years later, when the income clicked for the first time into healthy seven digits, I remembered with thanks, that moment in the little wooden alcove in Warrandyte, when the prescience was so strong, telling me it’s all OK, let go, this business will fly.

Now three years later I looked back, ruing that I did not more clearly define what I meant, when I had asked so fervently, “Dear Spirit or God, please let this business fly’’. It flew, it flew too high.(3)

Next part of this series deals with manifestation, spirituality and its link to business strategic strategy and intent.

References

(1) Where Does Intuition Comes From According To Ancient Books And Philosophers? – Learning Supernatural

[2] I was never able to find this tag again.  Maybe the concrete walkway had been redone.  Sanjeet was my witness it existed.

(3)  Olivier, A. .So Long We Slept Apart. Unpublished manuscript

Spiritual Insights on the Camino

My vison

Spain.  June 2024. I had just walked the Camino and was sitting alone as a chill wind howled through the soaring, empty, sombre space of St James Cathedral in Santiago. Although I find religious spaces lack spiritual energy and are dark relics of a distant, unpleasant past, outside the buzz of the Camino De Santiago continued, the joy, tears, laughter of the three thousand pilgrims who arrive daily.

I sat there for over an hour, bum on that stony bench and thought about all the roads that had led me to this cold, dark place.  A strong spiritual awareness had pervaded my entire life journey: white magic, dark magic, manifestation and revelations, all have been present, but no, organised religion was not for me thank you. I decided to meditate.

While in that land of meditation limbo, I had a profound experience. It began with the Franciscan Cross, which represented the custodians of Christian sites in the Holy Land. It glowed golden yet dripping red.  A single word came to me. Discipline. Followed by other jumbled words which became clearer as I later sketched out my vision.

But the thing that was most clear was that my life was about to change.

Since stepping out of the MD role and becoming divorced, I had lurched from one thing to another.  Starting this, starting that, wanting to do this, oh no, rather that.  I had become undecided, vacillating, unable to commit, unable to follow through.  Now here, in the most unexpected place came the answer.  You know what to do. You have known for twenty-three years.

Act now. Be disciplined.

I also understood the why, the purpose of life.  The answer is surprisingly simple – it’s to actualise ourselves. Fully. That’s it.  Our work with people and their potential substantiates the view that we are all born with a desire to achieve our highest potential. We have a Sacred Pull, the deepest of deep needs.

I wrote to a group of special people I had come to know through my Working Journey. I asked a simple question, would you like to join me in a circle committed to making a difference?  A birthing circle for transformation, a midwife to the new. The answer was a resounding YES.

And so Néos Delta came to be, a global circle of talented people; authors, poets, CEOs, Chairs, entrepreneurs and healers, dedicated to assisting people to live their fullest lives and organisations to a resilient, people and planet friendly future..

I told my friend Graham about this experience.  He commented that once we clean our portals, so to speak, one never knows who or what may wonder in. The daily walking for a month was a spiritual practice and it did indeed clean my ‘spiritual portal’.  So, a piece of advice. I suggest doing a Camino if you are stuck or needing change in your life. Or join us at a Neos Delta retreat in 2025.

 

The Purpose of Life is deceptively simple…

Most struggle to answer the question what is the purpose of our life. The answer is actually simple – it’s to actualise ourselves. Fully. That is it. Deceptively simple. Our work with capability and that of the writings of many others, substantiate the view we are all born with a desire to fulfill our highest potential. Some call it a Sacred Contract, but lets leave that alone.

In order to do fulfill this simple directive, we have to consciously develop our WILL (to fulfill it). This is important. When we are off track, usually because of fear, disadvantage or ‘comfort’, we become out of sorts, restless, disappointed (Out of flow).

Actualizing (finding, staying in flow) requires dedication, commitment, determination, mindfulness and taking risk. Its being called to do what intuitively beckons us. That means action words of risking, loving, serving, growing, challenging, forgiving, blessing, caring, experimenting…….

The stronger you are, the more determined you are to follow your path, the better your quality of decisions become in the big picture. Don’t sweat the failures. Its part of the journey, a wonderful emergent journey, revealing itself through intuitions, hunches, opportunities, grace, synchronicity. If we consistently block these markers we lose direction, become stuck – unhappy/ frustrated/out of flow.

We develop our inner strength by having the WILL to consistently seek growth and actualisation of our highest potential. By doing this consistently, we become empowered. Some become ‘enlightened’ Follow your purpose. Live Life.

Wondering about next step ? Strengthen your WILL to actualise. Support someone else to do the same.